BBW dating · San Diego
BBW dating
in San Diego.
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Plus-size dating in San Diego
San Diego’s big-hearted dating scene.
San Diego is laid-back and sunny, with the beach never far away. From Hillcrest to Chula Vista, there are curvy singles near you.
Shag a Fatty is made for BBW, BHM and the people who adore them. Browse plus-size singles in North Park, Hillcrest, Pacific Beach and beyond, like the ones you’d want to meet and start chatting when it’s mutual.
Women always date free. Men pay $49 once for the whole year, which keeps the time-wasters out and the inbox full of people who mean it. Every profile is checked by hand before it goes live.
Local guide
Dating in San Diego: where to meet and what to do.
Where to meet
San Diego has a relaxed, sunny feel that suits easy dates. The Gaslamp Quarter is lively for dinner, North Park and South Park have independent cafes and breweries, and Little Italy is lovely for a leisurely meal.
First date ideas
For a daytime date, walk along the Embarcadero, visit Balboa Park and its museums, or watch the sunset at Sunset Cliffs. Beach days at La Jolla Cove and Coronado are easy and free ways to enjoy the coast together.
Getting around
The trolley links downtown with Old Town, Mission Valley and the border, and buses cover most neighborhoods. Parking near the beaches fills up early at weekends, so allow extra time.
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First date ideas
Great San Diego first dates.
Comfortable, fun and easy to get to. No tiny bar stools.
Balboa Park
Gardens, museums and plenty of shade for a long walk and talk.
Little Italy
Great restaurants and a farmers market on Saturdays.
Sunset at La Jolla Cove
Watch the seals and the sunset, then dinner nearby.
San Diego FAQs
Dating in San Diego, answered.
The quick version of what people in San Diego ask us.
YouAre there BBW singles near me in San Diego?
Shag a FattyYes, all over San Diego, from Gaslamp Quarter to La Jolla. Set your area when you join and we’ll show you the closest members first.
YouIs it free for women in San Diego?
Shag a FattyCompletely free, always. Men pay $49 once a year, with no monthly subscription.
YouWhere’s a good first date in San Diego?
Shag a FattyTry Balboa Park. Gardens, museums and plenty of shade for a long walk and talk.
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