BBW dating · New York
BBW dating
in New York.
Meet curvy, confident plus-size singles across New York City, from Brooklyn to the Bronx. Women date free and men pay one yearly fee of $49, so there are no monthly subscriptions eating into your date budget.
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ManhattanHannah, 34
A walk across the Brooklyn Bridge
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The BronxRobyn, 29
A comedy club in the Village
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Maria, 36Brooklyn · 3 miles
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Sofia, 28Queens · 6 miles
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Jade, 32The Bronx · 2 miles
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Tom, 42Jersey City · 4 miles
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Gemma, 35Staten Island · 5 miles
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Hannah, 34Jersey City · 1 mile
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Becky, 33Hoboken · 4 miles
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Ali, 34Hoboken · 5 miles
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Plus-size dating in New York
New York’s big-hearted dating scene.
New York has millions of singles, but finding someone who loves your curves can still feel impossible on the big apps. Whether you’re in Manhattan or out in Queens, the right person could be one subway stop away.
Shag a Fatty is made for BBW, BHM and the people who adore them. Browse plus-size singles in Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island and beyond, like the ones you’d want to meet and start chatting when it’s mutual.
Women always date free. Men pay $49 once for the whole year, which keeps the time-wasters out and the inbox full of people who mean it. Every profile is checked by hand before it goes live.
Local guide
Dating in New York: where to meet and what to do.
Where to meet
New York is big and busy, so many members pick a borough and stay close to home. Brooklyn neighborhoods like Williamsburg, Park Slope and Bushwick have relaxed cafes and bars, while the West Village and the East Village suit a cosy evening out in Manhattan.
First date ideas
For a first date that is easy to leave or extend, try a walk through Central Park, a stroll across the Brooklyn Bridge, or a slow afternoon at the High Line and Chelsea Market. Museums such as the Met are great for conversation starters on a rainy day.
Getting around
The subway runs all night, but check your line before you head home, and allow extra time on weekends when trains are rerouted. Picking a spot near a station with an elevator can save you a long set of stairs.
Across New York
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Members across New York and nearby. Set your distance when you join and we’ll show you who’s closest.
First date ideas
Great New York first dates.
Comfortable, fun and easy to get to. No tiny bar stools.
A walk across the Brooklyn Bridge
Start in Manhattan, end in DUMBO, and grab pizza on the other side.
A comedy club in the Village
Greenwich Village has shows every night. Laughing together breaks the ice.
Chelsea Market
Plenty of food to share and lots to talk about.
New York FAQs
Dating in New York, answered.
The quick version of what people in New York ask us.
YouAre there BBW singles near me in New York?
Shag a FattyYes, all over New York, from Manhattan to Jersey City. Set your area when you join and we’ll show you the closest members first.
YouIs it free for women in New York?
Shag a FattyCompletely free, always. Men pay $49 once a year, with no monthly subscription.
YouWhere’s a good first date in New York?
Shag a FattyTry A walk across the Brooklyn Bridge. Start in Manhattan, end in DUMBO, and grab pizza on the other side.
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