Women date free · Men pay once a year · 18+
Big love.
No limits.
The plus-size dating site where women date free and men pay one simple yearly fee, with no monthly subscriptions. For BBW, BHM and the people who adore them. Romance, friendship or something a bit naughty.
Women date freeMen: £39 a yearNo monthly subscriptionsTotally discreet
2 miles awayLaura, 38
Brixton · Loves a Sunday roast
PassLike
Online nowRobyn, 29
Camden · Up for a laugh
PassLike
Laura liked you backIt’s a match!
Meet the members
Plus-size singles online now.
Real conversations start here. Have a look around, then join to see who’s near you.
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Laura, 38Brixton · 3 miles
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Robyn, 29Camden · 1 mile
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Ellie, 30Brighton · 5 miles
New member
Maria, 36Croydon · 2 miles
Active today
Tom, 42Clapham · 2 miles
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Sofia, 28Hackney · 4 miles
Active today
Jade, 32Ealing · 6 miles
New member
Gemma, 35Greenwich · 2 miles
Active today
Ali, 34Wembley · 4 miles
Photos show models and are for illustration only. Real member photos unlock when you join.
How it works
Three steps.
One date.
Joining takes about 30 seconds, and you can look around before you decide.
1
Join up
Tell us who you are and who you fancy. Women join free, men pay once for the year.
2
Like or pass
Browse plus-size singles near you and like the ones you’d want to meet.
3
It’s a match
When it’s mutual, start chatting. Then plan the date.
Simple, fair pricing
Women date free.
Men pay once a year.
No monthly subscriptions, no credits, no drip-feed charges. One price covers the whole year.
For women
Free
Always. No card needed.
- Full profile and photos
- Browse and like members
- Unlimited messaging
- Private photo controls
For men
£39
per year. Paid once, that’s it.
- Everything, all year round
- Unlimited messaging
- No monthly payments to remember
- Pay once, date all year
Why yearly?
Monthly subscriptions keep you paying whether you’re dating or not. One yearly fee means men who join are serious about meeting someone, and women get a better crowd.
Fewer time-wasters. Better dates.
Got questions?
We’ve got answers.
The things everyone asks before they join. Scroll down and we’ll answer them like a proper chat.
YouIs it free?
Shag a FattyFor women, completely free. Men pay one yearly fee of £39, with no monthly subscription.
YouWill I get charged every month?
Shag a FattyNever. There are no monthly payments, just one price for the year.
YouWho’s on here?
Shag a FattyBBW, BHM and their admirers, all 18 and over. Romance, friends or something naughty.
YouWill anyone know I’ve joined?
Shag a FattyOnly if you want them to. You choose who sees your photos 🔒
BBW dating near you
Find singles in your town.
Plus-size singles all over the UK and USA. Pick your city to see who’s about.
Your match is waiting.
Women date free. Men, one yearly fee and you’re in. It takes 30 seconds.
