BBW dating · Southampton
BBW dating
in Southampton.
Meet plus-size singles across Southampton, from Portswood to Ocean Village. Women date free and men pay one yearly fee of £39, so there are no monthly subscriptions eating into your date budget.
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City CentreBecky, 33
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Bedford PlaceEllie, 30
The old town walls
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Plus-size dating in Southampton
Southampton’s big-hearted dating scene.
Southampton has a big student and port-city mix, and plenty of curvy singles looking for something real. From Shirley to Woolston, there’s someone near you.
Shag a Fatty is made for BBW, BHM and the people who adore them. Browse plus-size singles in Ocean Village, Portswood, Shirley and beyond, like the ones you’d want to meet and start chatting when it’s mutual.
Women always date free. Men pay £39 once for the whole year, which keeps the time-wasters out and the inbox full of people who mean it. Every profile is checked by hand before it goes live.
Local guide
Dating in Southampton: where to meet and what to do.
Where to meet
Southampton has a historic waterfront and a growing food and drink scene. Oxford Street is lined with restaurants and bars, Bedford Place and Portswood have a neighbourhood feel, and Ocean Village offers marina views for an evening drink.
First date ideas
For a calm daytime date, walk the medieval city walls, visit SeaCity Museum or wander through Southampton Common. The Itchen Valley is within easy reach too, for a longer walk at the weekend.
Getting around
Southampton Central has direct trains to London Waterloo, Portsmouth and Bournemouth, and the city centre is compact enough to cover on foot. Ferries to the Isle of Wight leave from the docks, which makes for a lovely day trip.
Across Southampton
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First date ideas
Great Southampton first dates.
Comfortable, fun and easy to get to. No tiny bar stools.
Ocean Village
Bars and restaurants by the marina, with a view of the boats.
The old town walls
A walk round the medieval walls and a pub afterwards.
Bedford Place
A street of bars and restaurants close to the parks.
Southampton FAQs
Dating in Southampton, answered.
The quick version of what people in Southampton ask us.
YouAre there BBW singles near me in Southampton?
Shag a FattyYes, all over Southampton, from City Centre to Woolston. Set your area when you join and we’ll show you the closest members first.
YouIs it free for women in Southampton?
Shag a FattyCompletely free, always. Men pay £39 once a year, with no monthly subscription.
YouWhere’s a good first date in Southampton?
Shag a FattyTry Ocean Village. Bars and restaurants by the marina, with a view of the boats.
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